Thursday, March 15, 2012

the wisdom of the lady with the alligator purse

Vivi loves this book, The Lady with the Alligator Purse. Back in my day, I remember the song well (it starts "Miss Lucy had a baby. His name was Tiny Tim. She put him in the bathtub to see if he could swim"). I can't remember if it was one that we sang on the playground (a la "Miss Mary Mack" and "Down by the Banks") or if my grandma sang it to me while I played in the bathtub. She sang lots of cute songs to me. Either way, Vivi's recent fondness for it is bringing back nice memories of being a child. There's another post about reliving my childhood through my kids in all this rambling, but it's not why I'm writing about that book today.

The general premise of the silly song is that the baby is hungry, and the only one who figures out is not the doctor or nurse--who want to give him penicillin and castor oil--but the lady with the alligator purse, who gives him pizza. When I'm reading it to Vivi, I'm reminded of a doula's role during birth. Please don't mistake what I'm saying to mean that a doctor and nurse won't know what a mother needs; I trust the medical expertise of physicians, midwives, and other medical personnel. But as a doula, I'm that one person in the room who has a non-medical view of the experience and might be the one who reminds the mom of a position change (pizza!) instead of pitocin (castor oil) to speed up labor.

In other doula-related news, I named my doula business! I'm going with Mama's Mentor. To be completely honest, my mom and Nate are the ones who named it. Thanks Fam! I was having such a mental block that I was becoming desperate. Here are a few examples of how badly it could have gone:



Kidding! I sincerely hope you think Mama's Mentor is better than the above horrible choices (really, I had no idea I had it in me to be so creepy). I like it because it affords the potential for growing my business beyond birth doula to other aspects of motherhood, such as postpartum topics like lactation and infant sleep, and perhaps even beyond those to Simplicity Parenting. Who knows?! I'm excited by the possibilities.

I started a website for my business, and I plan to add lots more to it soon. So far it's just a place where I can answer potential clients' basic questions and provide my contact information. I'm planning to grab some free business cards from Vista Print with my temporary title, "DONA Trained Doula." I need a logo too. Any ideas? By ideas, I mean anything not involving Billy Joel throwing a baby in the air or a rode-hard woman on a horse. Maybe Billy Joel throwing a horse? That's just a thought to get you started, but you are free to branch out to logo images not involving middle-aged male singers and horses.


p.s. Please don't sue me, Mr. Joel. I love your music.


Molly Walter said...

i just need to say, I almost wish you'd gone with "Calamity Jane's Roadside Birthin' Tent". You'd be the first doula I'd call if I saw that "business" name

The Lone Home Ranger said...

Ha! Glad to hear it. I loved the humorous angle too, but it seemed to get a "love it or hate it" reaction from folks.

Emily Sefcik said..., love, love the website. Were I pregnant and in Boston, you would be my numero uno choice for a doula...regardless of the name : )

sarah saad said...

اهم شركات نقل العفش والاثاث بالدمام والخبر والجبيل اولقطيف والاحساء والرياض وجدة ومكة المدينة المنورة والخرج والطائف وخميس مشيط وبجدة افضل شركة نقل عفش بجدة نعرضها مجموعة الفا لنقل العفش بمكة والخرج والقصيم والطائف وتبوك وخميس مشيط ونجران وجيزان وبريدة والمدينة المنورة وينبع افضل شركات نقل الاثاث بالجبيل والطائف وخميس مشيط وبريدة وعنيزو وابها ونجران المدينة وينبع تبوك والقصيم الخرج حفر الباطن والظهران
شركة نقل عفش بجدة
شركة نقل عفش بالمدينة المنورة
شركة نقل عفش بالرياض
شركة نقل عفش بالدمام
شركة نقل عفش بالطائف
شركة نقل عفش بمكة

sarah saad said...

شركة تنظيف خزانات بجدة الجوهرة من افضل شركات تنظيف الخزانات بجدة حيث ان تنظيف خزانات بجدة يحتاج الى مهارة فى كيفية غسيل وتنظيف الخزانات الكبيرة والصغيرة بجدة على ايدى متخصصين فى تنظيف الخزانات بجدة
شركة تنظيف خزانات بجدة
اهم شركات كشف تسربات المياه بالدمام كذلك معرض اهم شركة مكافحة حشرات بالدمام والخبر والجبيل والخبر والاحساء والقطيف كذكل شركة تنظيف خزانات بجدة وتنظيف بجدة ومكافحة الحشرات بالخبر وكشف تسربات المياه بالجبيل والقطيف والخبر والدمام
شركة مكافحة حشرات بالدمام
شركة كشف تسربات المياه بالدمام


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